The Power of Delegation: Overcoming Resistance and Embracing Help
We've all been there - that nagging task that keeps getting pushed to the bottom of our to-do list. For me, it was hanging a mirror, two UVA diplomas, and a piece of art in my home office. They sat on the floor for three months, creating a sense of unease every time I entered the room. I found myself avoiding my office altogether, opting to work from the kitchen island instead.
The solution seemed simple: ask for help. My dad offered, a neighbor volunteered, but I hesitated. I didn't want to "bother" anyone. Sound familiar? It's a common struggle, but one that can significantly impact our productivity and well-being.
The turning point came when I realized I wanted to return from vacation to a calm, peaceful space. The only way to make that happen was to delegate and ask for help. So, I finally called a handyman.
This experience taught me a valuable lesson: it's okay to admit we can't do everything on our own. In fact, it's essential for our mental health and productivity. As Oprah Winfrey once said, "By helping others, we help ourselves!"
Is there something in your life that you need help with but can't seem to relinquish control over? I encourage you to start small. What's one task you can delegate to someone else? Lean into your family, your tribe, your community. Allow them the opportunity to help you.
Now, let's explore three timely topics to help you navigate the coming weeks:
Celebrate:
Teacher Appreciation and Mother's Day With Teacher Appreciation Week (May 6-10th) and Mother's Day (May 12th) are approaching. It's time to plan how you'll show your appreciation. Consider sending flowers, creating gift baskets, or purchasing and delivering thoughtful gifts. Don't forget about Curated Concierge gift cards for the busy moms in your life!
Consign:
As temperatures rise, it's the perfect time to refresh your wardrobe sustainably. Consider visiting local consignment shops like Darling, Agents in Style, and Natalie Dressed. By buying and selling pre-loved items, you support small businesses, extend the lifespan of clothing, and find high-quality pieces at affordable prices.
Cottage Cheese:
Move over cauliflower, there's a new nutritional powerhouse in town: cottage cheese! Packed with protein and calcium, it's a versatile ingredient that can blend seamlessly into both savory and sweet dishes. If you're hesitant, start small - try blending it into a smoothie. Your muscles and bones will thank you!
Here's a protein-packed recipe to get you started:
Cottage Cheese Overnight Oats (30g protein per serving)
As we wrap up, I challenge you to identify one small task you can delegate this week. Remember, asking for help isn't a sign of weakness - it's a testament to your strength in recognizing your limits and valuing your well-being.
What will you delegate today?